You are dying tomorrow! Can you say you lived your life to the fullest?
The fear of making a mistake can stop us from living a dream. We allow that fear to stop us.
Do you wake up fresh, revitalized grateful to be alive? Life shouldn’t be how most of us are living it. Live damn it, don’t just exist.
Here are a few things you can do now to start living life to the fullest:
1. Live with a sense of purpose. Live intentionally. Do not concern yourself or drown your thoughts with other people’s opinions. One of the most common regrets the dying have is that they did not lead the life they wanted or worse they lived someone else’s life. They allowed others to dictate their choices and actions.
All too often we live each day with no sense of purpose and walk around aimlessly just going through the motions of life. But, bit by bit time is passing and you are slowly getting closer to your death. You must wake up and start taking action towards the things you want in life right now. You have to get a clear vision what you want in life. And If you need help to find it. Do not be shy to take an online course. Email me and I will recommend you the best course.
Trying to impress people is a waste of time. Trust me, at the end of the day the only person you should be proud of is yourself. Think about it. How much time do you spend thinking about other people’s lives?
Example to life a better life:
1. Build a business you are passionate about
2. Get into phenomenal shape
3. Find the woman of your dreams
4. Travel to another city or state
5. Spend more time with friends and family
6. Start reaching your goals
2. Do not work too hard
We all have to pay our bills, but remember why are you working to pay them in the first place. What good is putting a roof over child’s head if he doesn’t recognize your face? You can work so hard that you miss out on the opportunities to enjoy your relationships with your wife or girlfriend. Just remember who is going to be there when you are on your death bed? You’re clients or the people who love you?
Please do not get me wrong. I believe it is important to work. But work smart not hard. Invest in Yourself to earn more. Try different things. If you are unhappy change something. If you want to spend more time with your family try to work on another day. There is always a solution to a problem.
Eliminate excuses. You can live a life you want.
4. Stay in touch with people who matter to you
People wish they kept up friendships but waited too long. Believe me, it is so important to keep friendships alive. I am personally not the type of guy who played football in college. I guess you know what I mean.
“Count your age by friends, not years. Count your life by smiles, not tears.” – John Lennon
The friends you have and find on Facebook; do more than liking their comments. Pick up the phone. Talk. Listen. Reclaim human connection. The sound of their voice, a laugh that’s real will happen. Texting is asinine; it’s for douchebags who are afraid to connect. Yes, recently I am the Douchebag . Nobody wants to be a douchebag. Call. Meet them and hug them when you see them. Talk to them, listen to them and help them. Be a good friend not a robot.
Stop reading now. Think of two person. Call one of them.
4. It is all about happiness
I am a huge Fan of James Altucher. He inspired me to read more and challenged me to choose the „Happy Path“. Not all of my friends have the same opinion about him, but I like him.
Happiness is a choice and it is something you can decide to be. Sometimes it is better to say no to something you do not want to do than to do it. You do not have to wait until you graduate college, get the job or the amazing girlfriend. And don´t think money will make you happy or anything better. You have different areas in your life and live to the fullest mean you are happy in every single one of it.
“Happiness is when what you think, what you say, and what you do are in harmony.” – Mahatma Gandhi
Start incorporating this process into your thoughts:
Stop. Eliminate the clutter and nonsense in your mind. You will discover a great truth: As bad as you may have thought it was, you are in fact still here.
Evaluate. Look at the situation and determine which action would be your best action.
Decide. Decide what you want to do.
Act. Put your choice into motion.
You can decide every single moment in your life what you want to do and what not.
Sometimes decision are hard to make and it will be very hard to do the first step to change a habit. But daily practice will help you to change habits.
If you like to read this article please share it to your friends.
Schreibe einen Kommentar